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Category: Parenting
It Shines Inside You
Over the next few years (2006-2008), I couldn’t help but apply what I was learning through personal revelation to my life. When I saw the truth, I realized I needed to correct myself as a mother, a wife, a sister, a daughter, and a friend. […]
Toxic Blame
In Blaming Judgment we attribute too much responsibility to other Causes as a Resolution Process. We teach the child to blame another child, her parents, or other Causes, without also evaluating her own choices that contributed to the Conflict. The goal for Toxic Blame, whether we are conscious of it or not, is to absolve […]
Toxic Shame
Imbalanced Judgment splits down the middle. There is Toxic Shame and there is Toxic Blame. In Toxic Shame, we attribute too much responsibility to one person as a Resolution Process. We teach the Child to blame herself without also teaching her to consider the other Causes involved. In doing this we subject her to more […]
Where do I Belong?
In a previous blog post, I described a scene out of my own life story. It was a Conflict. It was an illustration of a relationship that was not working. The relationship was dysfunctional. It seemed to be failing in its purpose. There were two people involved, members of the same family, brother and sister. […]
When the Kids Leave Home
https://specialopsmoms.blogspot.com/2016/09/when-kids-leave-home.html […]
Paradoxical vs. Survival Parenting
As a parent, I’m aware that my children do not yet understand how to keep their commitments to the extent I do so I show them how it works by keeping mine first even when they don’t. I do this both in the physical chores around the house AND in the spiritual chores. When they […]
Kid Report
https://specialopsmoms.blogspot.com/2013/09/kid-report.html […]
